Kat, I have been in your friends position. My ex husband was abusive in a manner of ways. It took me a very long time to get out of that place. I agree with what youhave said though. She needs to be strong, she needs her family & friends around her to support her through this horrendous time in her life.

The comment about us women being here to serve men......I reduse to make comment because I wont little Kat's blog with the abuse that will pour forth!

hey i think u should chek this abosolute sexist fukwits site out (just so u can have a say hehe) http://spaces.msn.com/members/jesusisonebadmofo/

Whilst your attitude is very positive, it's important to remember that women were placed here to serve men, not to fight against them. Whilst some men are mean and evil, we must still respect and love them with all our hearts.

ur a tru babe kat mwa*