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4月4日 opinion ~ sexualityσριиισи ~ ѕєχυαℓιту
here's another of my opinions on every issue imaginable. this one is on sexuality. the issue of sexuality is no big deal to me ~ i have bi friends, i'm bi-curious myself. however, this issue matters to the general population, and i have friends it matters to and therefore because it matters to people i have an opinion.
there is a reason behind this sudden opinion. last night my sister was on msn and the topic of conversation was a girl in her year because another girls name was 'confessions - xxxxxxx is bi' and so they were talking about it. now this girl is a bitch, and no one really likes her, but that i think is beside the point. my sister seems to think that bi-sexuality is wrong, she was like 'eww that is gross'. now i don't see the problem, but i think this story was exaggerated just a little. i'm not sure of the exact details but somehow i don't think this girl was trying to hook up with anyone that they were talking about.
i'm not exactly sure of the big problem with bisexuality and homosexuality, i think its plain rude when people discriminate against them ~ they are people too, and just because they are the minority doesn't mean they're very different or we should treat them unfairly. people are people, whether they are black, white, smart, dumb, retarded or gay and bi - they should be treated the same. i also dislike the double standards, but this is mostly with men, for example men see it as alright for lesbians, but completely wrong for gay men. this is in light of the theme of 'Brokeback Mountain' as well, how the gays are discriminated against, and anyone who has seen in will agree that the scene with the story of how that guy was killed was so unfair.
i am under the impression that most people dislike bisexual or homosexual people because of fear, many people are scared that these people will try to hook up with them or something. and this is not true. bis and gays go for bi and gay people, they know who they are. there really isn't anything to be worried about. i think friends are the biggest culprits of the dislike factor, but the thing is that if a person is coming out and telling people and you happen to be one of their good friends they are not going to want to hook up with you because you are friends - and they respect your wishes and privacy etc etc. and although many people are indifferent to the issue of sexuality there are some awfully rude people out there that feel the need to put others down because of their sexuality. groups of gay people do not go around putting down straight people ~ lets not have it the other way round, its discrimination, its hurtful and its unnecessary. sexuality should not be an issue.
just another point ~ there have numerous uncalled for comments left on this space in regards to my own sexuality. i have been called a lesbian countless times and it is generally from people who take one look at this space and comment, not people who read through everything and take the time to interpret everything, because if they did they would realise that i have a boyfriend. i don't care about people saying that about me, it doesn't bother me but it does bother other people. just because i can talk about sex, as it is not a taboo topic for me, and just because i have 'chick pics' on this space does not mean i am a lesbian. i'm not afraid of sexuality and i respect both the female and the male form, though i think the female form is represented better in art, this does not make me gay. if you feel the need to say it then say it, but in a tasteful way please. 评论 (4)
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